Ratyauli,the topic seen and unseen part of Marriage Ceremony in Nepal

Marriage ceremony is the most hot topic in Nepal and  Ratyauli as part of marriage is performed in different parts of Nepal as it  has own value.When bride groom departs for bridegroom with his guests ,the marriage hall at home is used to celebrate as dance stage by the female members of the bridegroom or every female guests who gather to celebrate the dance.They distribute the snacks named Kasar and selrotee with different pickles and then starts dancing ,they depict male female bonding ,familial love and every factors of marriage ,you just feel odd as kid to observe everything because the dance goes on maximum level of demonstration of male pysche and female pysche.

It was in Dhakalthok,Syngja, 1998 ,I was sitting on the yard,my cousin took me with her to Gairikhoriya ,where in Payeta house there was ratyauli program ,I went with her it was evening time ,all women with red saree ,patuki and gunyu cholo started beating drum together ,then a female disguising as a male started dancing in mid.We just laughed and went to have snacks there .Anyway female demonstration of male pysche was not less important .There were certain bolloywood pictures in which I  had seen such incident but real incidents in marriage ceremony makes you feel more happy .

Culture and demonstration are interrelate thing we demonstrate what we want to present in front of other in the name of celebration and some factors of culture are named taboos and we just limit our talks only but the scene created by female theatre or stage in local marriage ceremony is owesome.You just visit every marriage ceremony and you tease your brothers for such incident when they bring bride with them as bridegroom and you get lots of gifts and money to make them irriatate by heart.Your demand reaches to peak level and they beg with you and you let them to enter in the home of marriage ceremony.

Anyway,ratyauli ceremony is the less described topic in our society various videos are made by local singers and you just love to play in laptop and you feel you would love to dramatize this unseen part in your family and relatives .